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Tanıdığım insanlardan bir blogum olduğunu saklıyorum genelde. Tabi benimkine de blog denirse...
am arada sırada birilerine "blogum var" dediğimde adresinin ne olduğunu öğrenmek için öleceklerini sanıyorum ama kimse sallamıo valla. Düşündüğüm kadar eğlenceli biri diilim galiba. Peehhh...

I'm usually hiding that I have a blog from people I know but when I tell occasionally someone I think they would die to learn it's address. But guess, noone cares. I think I'm not as fun as I'm think:)

 Peki bir zamanlar best badyin olan insanların bir noktada sizin sevmekten vazgeçmesi. Birini ya seversin ya sevmez ve arkadaş olmazsın öyle değil mi? Hangi noktada çok sevdiğin birini artık sevmemeye karar verirsin ki. Ya da hadi böyle bir karar verdin kalbin bu kararı nasıl izler. İnanın bana o kadar çok birilerini artık sevmemeye karar verdim ki. ama hiç bir kararımı tutmaya ikna edemedim kalbimi. Keşke kızdıkları neyse beninle paylaşsalar, kavga etsek, birbirimize her neye kırıldıysak acıklasak ya da baktık düzeltebileceğimiz bir şey değil ikimiz de kızgın ayrılsak. Hiç olmazsa "Noldu ki" düşüncesinden kurtulurduk... Neyse...

What about the ones who are your best friend once and suddenly they just give up... U can love somebodies or not but you can not just decide in the middle of the friendship or love and start to not love them, right? Ok when I say love it doesn't seems as right as I thought but may be in friendship... No... While I'm writing I noticed that yes you can decide. I'm just nonsense. Ok. Whatever...

 

Peki madem ilişki ya da arkadaşlıkta birbirimizi sevmekten vazgecebileceğimize karar verdik, next step için bir formul bulalım. Bu kişiler sizi sevmemeye başladığı anda uzaklaşalım mı hayatlarından. Şimdiye kadar ki vazgeçmeme kuralım bende çok çalışmadı. Peki next kuralımız şu o zaman. Oyle hissettiğim anda arıza çıkarmak. Kavga etmek. Hahahah... Yazarken bile komik... Ama eğlenceli  olabilir.

 

So we decided that it's Ok to start not to love someone in the middle of the relationship, than what should be our next step. Should we just left them in the hell that they already live? Which never worked for my good... Or from now on at the moment that we felt the unkindness or an attitude make a scene, start a huge fight... Event writing this is funny but it can be fun:)

 

Neden bana kimse #icebucketchallenge 'da meydan okumadı...Bi Peehh de burdan. Sıkıcı biri olduğum yönündeki teori gittikçe gerçeğe yakınsıyor...

 

Why nobody challenged me on #icebucketchallenge ? The theory about I'm boring is getting closer to be a fact. Pehhh...

Peki şimdi de daha eğlenceli olmak için ne yapmalı konulu düşünceciğe geldi sıra. Daha çok eğlenceli şey izlemeli bir kere. Bi de belki biraz daha okumak... Eğlenceli insanlarla takılmak mümkün olduğunca şimdi düşününce ok ben sıkıcıyım da A, B, C, çok mu eğlenceli. Yok anacım herkes çok sıkıcı. Ok, kitap dizi, film, karikaturden gidicez o zaman.

 

Then now it's turn to idea of how can we be more fun. First we should watch more comedy seriesi movies or read comedy books. Standups can be useful too:) And be with fun people. If you have some of them around you of course. I just noticed that I don't many... Ok stick with books and movies:)

 

#‎Yağmurdabalkonyıkanlarderneği‬ üyeliğinden ‪#‎Balkonaçamaşırasmayıunutanlarderneği‬ üyeliğine geçiş... Haliyle geçen yıkanan balkona çamaşır asmak mantıklıydı. Taa ki alt kattaki her bir balkona ayrı ayrı çamaşırlar düşürmeye başlayıncaya dek. Hemen altımdaki balkonun sahibi evde olmayınca daha alttaki balkon sahibi teyzeye "Hihi, kusura bakmayın, balkonunuza camaşırımız düştü, size zahmet, alabilir miyim" cümleleri ile komşuluk ilişkilerimi 0'dan 1'e geliştirdim, which me...ans lot. Sonra hemen alttaki kapısı açılmayan balkondaki çamaşırımı ucuna kanca sekli verilmiş çatal iğneli ip oltamı atarak, mühendislik becerilerimle gurur duyarak bir yandan, almaya çalıştım ki bu innovative girişimim çamaşırı, biraz once balkonundan çamaşır istediğim dairenin balkonuna tekrar düşürmemle sonuçlandı. Mühendislik becerilerim bunca yıl sonra kaybolmuş demek ki. Ama insan ilişkilerinde kendimi geliştirmiş olmalıyım ki aynı teyzeynin zilini tekrar basıp sanki olay super saçma diilmiş gibi bir daha çamaşır istemeye gittim:) Tabi kadının kapısında gülme krizine girmem kadını da biraz rahatlaşmış olmalı. "İstersen buraya getir, çamaşırı burda asalım" diye espri bile yaptı... Yani ben espri olarak algıladım. Laf da sokmuş olabilir.
Neyse çok komikti işte diye burada bitirebilirdim ama bir çamaşırı daha hemen alta kapısı açılmayan daireye düşürdüm... 1) Insan bazı şeylerden ders almalı. 2) Neyseki bu sefer kanca fikrim işe yaradı. Yoksa valla bi daha kadının kapsına gidemezdim. Valla...

Neyse gelişme var. :)

 

 

 

The Things I Saw Took My Breath Away

Cause I'm Happyyy

Happiness is a habit – cultivate it.” ~ Elbert Hubbard

Happiness is one aspiration all people share. No one wants to be sad and depressed.

We’ve all seen people who are always happy – even amidst agonizing life trials. I’m not saying happy people don’t feel grief, sorrow or sadness; they just don’t let it overtake their life. The following are 21 things happy people make a habit of doing:

1. Appreciate Life
Be thankful that you woke up alive each morning. Develop a childlike sense of wonder towards life. Focus on the beauty of every living thing. Make the most of each day. Don’t take anything for granted. Don’t sweat the small stuff.

2. Choose Friends Wisely
Surround yourself with happy, positive people who share your values and goals. Friends that have the same ethics as you will encourage you to achieve your dreams. They help you to feel good about yourself. They are there to lend a helping hand when needed.

3. Be Considerate
Accept others for who they are as well as where they are in life. Respect them for who they are. Touch them with a kind and generous spirit. Help when you are able, without trying to change the other person. Try to brighten the day of everyone you come into contact with.

4. Learn Continuously
Keep up to date with the latest news regarding your career and hobbies. Try new and daring things that has sparked your interest – such as dancing, skiing, surfing or sky-diving.

5. Creative Problem Solving
Don’t wallow in self-pity. As soon as you face a challenge get busy finding a solution. Don’t let the set backs affect your mood, instead see each new obstacle you face as an opportunity to make a positive change. Learn to trust your gut instincts – it’s almost always right.

6. Do What They Love
Some statistics show that 80% of people dislike their jobs! No wonder there’s so many unhappy people running around. We spend a great deal of our life working. Choose a career that you enjoy – the extra money of a job you detest isn’t worth it. Make time to enjoy your hobbies and pursue special interests.

7. Enjoy Life
Take the time to see the beauty around you. There’s more to life than work. Take time to smell the roses, watch a sunset or sunrise with a loved one, take a walk along the seashore, hike in the woods etc. Learn to live in the present moment and cherish it. Don’t live in the past or the future.

8. Laugh
Don’t take yourself – or life to seriously. You can find humor in just about any situation. Laugh at yourself – no one’s perfect. When appropriate laugh and make light of the circumstances. (Naturally there are times that you should be serious as it would be improper to laugh.)

9. Forgive
Holding a grudge will hurt no one but you. Forgive others for your own peace of mind. When you make a mistake – own up to it – learn from it – and FORGIVE yourself.

10. Gratitude
Develop an attitude of gratitude. Count your blessings; All of them – even the things that seem trivial. Be grateful for your home, your work and most importantly your family and friends. Take the time to tell them that you are happy they are in your life.

11. Invest in Relationships
Always make sure your loved ones know you love them even in times of conflict. Nurture and grow your relationships with your family and friends by making the time to spend with them. Don’t break your promises to them. Be supportive.

12. Keep Their Word
Honesty is the best policy. Every action and decision you make should be based on honesty. Be honest with yourself and with your loved ones.

13. Meditate
Meditation gives your very active brain a rest. When it’s rested you will have more energy and function at a higher level. Types of meditation include yoga, hypnosis, relaxation tapes, affirmations, visualization or just sitting in complete silence. Find something you enjoy and make the time to practice daily.

14. Mind Their Own Business
Concentrate on creating your life the way you want it. Take care of you and your family. Don’t get overly concerned with what other people are doing or saying. Don’t get caught up with gossip or name calling. Don’t judge. Everyone has a right to live their own life the way they want to – including you.

15. Optimism
See the glass as half full. Find the positive side of any given situation. It’s there – even though it may be hard to find. Know that everything happens for a reason, even though you may never know what the reason is. Steer clear of negative thoughts. If a negative thought creeps in – replace it with a positive thought.

16. Love Unconditionally
Accept others for who they are. You don’t put limitations on your love. Even though you may not always like the actions of your loved ones – you continue to love them.

17. Persistence
Never give up. Face each new challenge with the attitude that it will bring you one step closer to your goal. You will never fail, as long as you never give up. Focus on what you want, learn the required skills, make a plan to succeed and take action. We are always happiest while pursuing something of value to us.

18. Be Proactive
Accept what can not be changed. Happy people don’t waste energy on circumstances beyond their control. Accept your limitations as a human being. Determine how you can take control by creating the outcome you desire – rather than waiting to respond.

19. Self Care
Take care of your mind, body and health. Get regular medical check ups. Eat healthy and work out. Get plenty of rest. Drink lots of water. Exercise your mind by continually energizing it with interesting and exciting challenges.

20. Self Confidence
Don’t try to be someone that you’re not. After all no one likes a phony. Determine who you are in the inside – your own personal likes and dislikes. Be confident in who you are. Do the best you can and don’t second guess yourself.

21. Take Responsibility
Happy people know and understand that they are 100% responsible for their life. They take responsibility for their moods, attitude, thoughts, feelings, actions and words. They are the first to admit when they’ve made a mistake.
Begin today by taking responsibility for your happiness. Work on developing these habits as you own. The more you incorporate the above habits into your daily lifestyle – the happier you will be.

Most of all: BE TRUE TO YOURSELF

http://www.mindopenerz.com/21-habits-of-happy-people/ 

Robert Downey Jr Sings With Sting And Absolutely Kills It

@Amsterdam: Damn!!! I remember everything…

Yes we were @Amsterdam again. But unlike last time I couldn’t get high as much as I wantL

So without getting high I realized Amsterdam was a little bit boring. Thank God, I was with my new BFFs so we were getting closer instead of stupid giggles and hallucinationsJ We talked about boys, girls, music, movies, memories… And thank God, one of us achieve to get high and she gave us best comedy showJ

Our new year eve was literally over the fireworks. I mean it. Fireworks were under our feet. No we were not on a roof our not flying. The crackheads let off the fireworks to the ground to our feet. So I can say we were dancing on the fireworks. It’s not lieJ  

My BFFs A and KC are most compatible and nicest guys in the world. They are good looking, polite and a little bit geek. Ok I have to admit, soo geek but they are soo cute as well. I think they and I were so auto controlled, that’s why we couldn’t be high.

These are what we were doing and remembering loud and clear:

-          We tried joints from Smokey Coffee Shop. Joints are just well, I told you, one of us have the most entertaining time with the same cigars.

-          We tried magic mushroom from different places. Yes again nothing happened. You can find them anywhere.

-          We forgot the New Year evening thing and didn’t make a reservation or getting a party ticket. So that’s why fireworks exploded at our asses. So if you will be at new year eve at Amstat do some research for party. There was a place called Escape and it seems cool enough but they sold all tickets online. So we couldn’t get in. LL

-          Hard Rock Café Amsterdam: They are good and we love Hard Rock Cafes.

-          We jumped on a tram and went where it had gone. We saw suburban’s and made drink shopping from there. We thought this should be a cheapest market in the city. U know touristic places are always expensive. And Yes, after we lost our hope, we returned old school thingJ  

-          We bought cheese. Everyone should try them.

-          We discovered a chocolate store called Puccuni. It’s chocolates are remarkable. Definitely must try. http://www.puccinibomboni.com/  

-          We take tour with canal boat. They have nearly 20 language. You are not have to try to understand EnglishJ

-          If the weather was not extremely cold, we definitely wanted to ride a bike but rain and cold made change our minds.

-          We stayed at Park Plaza Victoria Amsterdam and it’s not bed. I’ve seen better.

 

That’s enough. I hope you can go where we can’t go and just stay there. For just a short time u know. For being far away from all real things, work, and the other stuff.

Have fun.

 

 

 

 

Sarhoştum, hatırlamıyorumm

Party Intern

telefonum bozuldu

Party Bubu

Ohh nooo

Nerdesin

Kayboldun akşam

Party Intern

evet kaybolmusum

evdeyim su an

Party Bubu

Nasıl gittin?

Aklımız sende kaldı

Party Intern

noldu ki

Party Bubu

E kendinde diildin diye

Telefonuna nolmuş?

Party Intern

bilmiyorum surekli carklar donuyor kac saattir. Kendimde mi degildim ? nasıll?

Party Bubu

oooo

Party Intern

cidden anlatsana

Party Bubu

Sonra Ali Kemal'le anlatırız:)

Party Intern

off naptım ki

Party Bubu

Yok bi şeyyapmadın

Kötü oldun sadece

Party Intern

kustum mu

Party Bubu

noooo

Allahtan

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ohh

Party Bubu

Masada uyudun biraz

Party Intern

ya cok yorgundum 2 gun sınav proje falan cok içmedim hem

Party Bubu

Sonra da kaldırıp tekneye bindikdik seni ama sonra seni kaybettik:)

Party Intern

off yaa

Party Bubu

O yüzden mesaj attım sana nerdesin diye

Party Intern

özür dilerim bi sacmalık yaptıysam

hangi masada uyudum ki

Party Bubu

Yok hiç bi saçmalık yapmadın

Don't worry

Party Intern

yuruyebiliyordum sanırım degil mi

Party Bubu

Eh işte:)))))

Party Intern

off o kötu olmus

bi daha internlerle takılmam içirdiler iyice bana

Party Bubu

Aahaha

Ben sana demiştim

Çabuk gel diye

Party Intern

ali kemal mi tasıdı beni

Party Bubu

ehhh

Partially

Party Intern

bi de sen

Party Bubu

nope

Party Intern

internler nerdeydi ki yaa valla telefon bozuk

kimseyle gorusemedim

Ben onları koordine ediodum ama ben de iyiydim zaten:)

rezil oldum desene

Party Bubu

:))))))))

Yok yok

Millette ne hikayeler var

Kusanlar falan

Herkesin kafa ıyıydı

Party Intern

neyse ortalardayım o zaman top degilmişim

Party Bubu

yok yok

Relax

Party Intern

cidden bak söyle cok merak ediyorum yaa rezil oldum mu cok önemli benim için

Party Bubu

Sadece Ali Kemalle bana

Başka kimse görmedi

Bi de Ahmetler işte

Party Intern

hangi ahmet

Party Bubu

Ahmet'le K.Can

O akşamki arkadaşların

Party Intern

evet hatırladım. hep bu makina muhendisligi okudugumdan oluyo bunlar. Neyse alikemale de sana da bi hediyeyle kendimi affettireyim

Party Bubu

Kabak tatlısı bize tüm geceyi unutturur:)

Party Intern

aa sevdiniz demek tamamdır

Party Bubu

Telefonuna noldu?

Party Intern

anlamıyorum

carklar donuyo 4 saat oldu acılmıo

Party Bubu

hard reset varmış

Party Intern

yaptım

kaç kere hep aynı

Party Bubu

Hımm

Geçmiş olsun

Party Intern

ya ben masada oturuyordum en son biriyle konusuyordum ondan sonrası yok. en öndeki koltuklardaydım

sizin nasıl haberiniz oldu ki

sizin masaya mı geldim

Party Bubu

yesss

Party Intern

biri mi getirdi ben mi geldim gelip uyudum öyle mi

Party Bubu

yess

Ya konuşur güleriz sonra

takılma valla

Haftasonunun tadını çıkar

Party Intern

nooo tamam guleriz de anlat valla hatırlamıyorum yaa

lutfenn

Party Bubu

Ya valla anlatacak bi şi yok

Dediğin gibi

Masaya gelip sızdın

O kadar

Sonra da haliyle senı dışarı çıkardık

Parti de bitmişti zaten

Tekneye binip döndük

Sonra da seni kaybettik

Esyalarını almış mısın sen

Onu falan alamadık

Party Intern

sanırım herkesin kafa iyiydi bana paltomu giydirmemişler orda kalmıs

Party Bubu

Senden paltonun fişini istedik de veremedin:))))))))))))

Party Intern

ben de paltomu giydirmeyince kesin sacma bişi, oldu apar topar cıkardılar beni sandım

yoktu fişi

en öne asmıslardı

fiş kalmamıs

Party Bubu

Haa

Party Intern

evin anahtarı da paltodaydı zaten

Party Bubu

Tabi sen bunu da söylemedin

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eve geldim kapı duvar

Party Bubu

Yoksa biz giydirmek istedik:)

Party Intern

saat kaç gibiydi

Party Bubu

2

Sen nasıl gitmişin eve

Bize başka bir intern onu kendi evine götürdü dediler

Party Intern

yok sadece mecidiyeköyde indigimi hatırlıyorum yanımda kimse yoktu

Party Bubu

aaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Party Intern

sacma bi yerde indirmiş taksici yurudum eve

Party Bubu

Valla bz seni bırakmazdık o halde

Party Intern

anahtarım yok

Party Bubu

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Party Intern

ev arkadasım yok sarjım yok

Party Bubu

eeeeeeeeeee

ayılmışsındır:)

Party Intern

allahtan bizim kapıcıda boyle maymuncuk gibi bişi var

ve allahtan ev arkadasım kapıyı kitlememiş

adamın kapısını caldım o halde nasıl ayıp oldu ya adam geldi açtı kapıyı hırsız gibi

girdim içeri

Party Bubu

Ay şu yazışmayı kopyalayıp paylaşmak istedim

Party Intern

sabah bi uyandım her yer turuncu tuy falan zaten

ustumde kalmıs kapıcının yerine koyup kendimi dusunuyorum da cok komik ya

Party Bubu

Artık ne düşündü adam senible ilgili

Hhahaha

gecenin bi yarısı tuylu sarhos biri geliyo

party hard

Party Bubu

work hard party hard

Party Intern

şimdi diosun ki dont worry hiçbişi yapmadın sadece sızdın ve kimse görmedi masumdun öyle mi

Party Bubu

evet

Dediğim gibi herkes iyiydi

Gerçi bi ara sahnedeki dansçının yanına cıktın:)

Party Intern

neeeeeeeee

danscının mı

Party Bubu

Yok yok şaka

ok then

Keep calm

Party Intern

Müdür ?

Party Bubu

O Erken ayrıldı

She never saw u

Party Intern

ok then. Alikemale de yazık olmus

kazasız belasız atlattık neyse. dedigin gibi yine konusur guleriz ama detay istiyorum

ben bi telefonuma bakayım servis falan

Party Bubu

Ok

KG

Party Intern

Alikemal getirmiş beni masaya cıkısta da merdivende uyumusum, HR Kemal bey saha koşturuyormuşdetayları alıyorum yavas yavas taksiden atılmısız falan

Party Bubu

Vaaoov